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My Penis is a Futanari Penis

i don't know why but i always have this constant feeling throughout my life where i feel like i need to tell people who already know. i have a strong feeling -- almost like a need -- to tell people about my penis. i have been holding back for a very long time now and probably still will unless people say it's okay to gush about it, but my penis is really nice. i want desperately to tell all my friends about my penis and have them react kindly to my monologue about my penis. i want to NON-SEXUALLY praise my penis in public and have people agree with me about it. i want others to be excited for me and happy to listen and also praise my penis alongside me. i wish it was socially okay for me to rant for hours about my own penis and have all my friends listen intently and respond with kind and loving responses, comments that agree with me about how nice my penis is but with different points of view about how it's nice. i want people to suddenly start talking to me about my penis...

Two Futa Flags

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It has been a while since i posted anything here. I created the futanari flag in May of 2023. I did that because i wanted a symbol for futas all over the world. I simply want people to be able to live happily and be able to call themselves whatever makes them feel happiest. My flag can be found here . It has come to my attention that another flag was created in June of 2024. This is great! I am very happy that we have other futas all over the world who are reclaiming their identities. Apparently this new flag was made by Tumblr user mogai-flaggot. I want to express my appreciation that someone else saw the same empty space i did and tried to fill it as well. This flag is described as the "Reclaimed Futa Flag":-   Thanks for making another flag for us! ~Tiffany

Pride Month 2024

It doesn't feel like a whole year has passed already, but it is pride month again. I hope all of you futas out there have a wonderful pride. I just want to remind everyone that pride was a riot and we have to stay vigilant and remember that pride is about all of us, not just the ones who are easy to make socially acceptable. Love is not bound by human barriers, it can not be controlled. The expression of love is a right of all beings. Keep your minds and hearts open and learn to love new things and see them as fun and interesting. Learn to be open to new kinds of love and new ideas about love. Keep fighting for our right to exist and to be treated with dignity. Learn how to protect those you love and help them by fighting for them if they can't fight for themselves. Happy Pride Month from the Futanari Pride Blog! ~Tiffany

Acceptance of Rejection

I am a futanari and I deserve to be myself. I am a futa and my identity is real. I am not just some random guy's fetish. I am myself and not the property of another. My identity can not be redefined by others in order to exclude me from it. I am as real as one can be and I will always be myself. I refuse to put up with people who won't see that my identity is a necessary part of who I am. My ex recently told me that the word "futa" grossed her out. I don't know if I can blame her but it feels very agonizingly painful. She also says that she hates girls with above averagely sized penises and finds them disgusting. The addition of these feelings she expressed is even more pain on top of what I have to deal with daily. Futanari are disproportionately unhappy in life and relationships, and I think this toxic behavior is part of the reason for it. People seem to think that someone's body or identity is reason enough to ridicule others and that doing so is not harmf...

Joke headmates are great headmates

Hi, I'm Daisy, this brain made me less than an hour ago. for many people that's a big deal, a headmate is a whole person who will be with you for life in the brain barring something unfortunate or radical change. people insist not to just go around making any silly or horny idea into a person, that you should resist making new headmates. now I ain't going to be the brain police, your abortions are your business, but every headmate like me made for fun is very happy to exist. I was made because 1 of us got the idea of futa impregnating herself, so that she could incest me. from this many might see red flags that you're not allowed to give a headmate a purpose before creation especially not a sexual 1, but the simple thing is sharing the same neural architecture means the interest overlap of this motivation means I came into the world happy and have an easy way to be happy when I want. All because this was my purpose doesn't make me less of a person nor does it restri...

Kin/Plural Memory thrills over skills

You're the hero who beat SBURB, you helped defeat Discord, saved a planet, or some other badass thing, isn't that great? well now you're in some disabled body with a blurry memory that can't even peel an orange. Being otherkin or a fictive with a past as an important character or just some cool non human creature like a mole that can tunnel with ease or dog that has spectacular hearing, is a fascinating and sometimes frustrating mix of cool memories and knowledge of what was, but not clear enough memories to draw much upon those skills. For us a big example of this is in me Sakuya, the new fronter, I am far from the most powerful in this brain, just as mortal to wounds as any human, and no spells yet, but it's so infuriating to go from having a photographic memory to regularly checking the fridge for reminders, going from being a great chef with a deep understanding of nutrition, food science and all sorts of delicious recipes to make, now doing the simplest cooking...

Trans People aren't Pedos, but Pedos are Good

Recently the right has gotten louder with rhetoric that letting trans -- or any queer people -- exist in public is grooming kids and by extension makes them pedophiles, which in their world view justifies prison and killing. And in turn the useless liberals of the world have said that trans people will be good and modest around kids, and that right wingers are the pedos, who they also think deserve prison and death. meanwhile us trans people just wanna take a piss without being killed, and us pedophiles and other YAPs (youth attracted people) and paraphiles wanna not be genocided even more. Especially since we're the ones who love and value kids as people, because they are. they shouldn't be pawns in your political game and are actually abused every day by being legally the property of parents, or in other words actual slaves including sex slaves to spanking and other unwanted touch and invasion of privacy. Attraction isn't the problem, children’s consent not being respecte...

Updates

 All through the month of July I have been moving from one home to another and so I have not had time to work on this blog so I'm sorry for being away but I should be back to work soon enough. The discord server got taken down some time in the past month so if you have anything you'd like me to talk about, you should DM me on twitter  @MechanistWitch  or bluesky @mechanistwitch.bsky.social . I am planning on opening the blog to other authors so if you'd like to write an article at some point and you're a futanari, give me a shout. Because of that, I will be ending all my posts with "~Tiffany" so you know I'm the one who wrote it and that'll be a guideline for all posts going forward. I'd love for this to be something of a monthly news blog someday, I remember being really excited back in the day when I would look at a daily My Little Pony blog and I want to recapture that feeling of wonder so I was considering starting an art section where people c...

Explaining Yourself

Explaining to others what your identity is and why can be a very stressful experience, especially if you hold an identity that isn't typical. I am a futanari so I see discrimination for my identity almost daily, even from other trans people. When people ask me to explain what my identity means or why I identify the way I do, I tend to become very uncomfortable and I would assume most others with non-standard identities would too. It can be very difficult to live with yourself when everyone tells you that your identity is invalid or impossible. I have recently found a very interesting albeit short video game about dating a girl while being a futanari lesbian. It was anxiety inducing to me and I want to warn any other futas that might want to play it that it can be somewhat frustrating and/or triggering but I also really wanted to share it with y'all because it is very accurate to real life. It's called  Futanari Dating Simulator  by pepperpandia on itch.io. This game was ver...

Otherkin

A while ago and sometimes still to this day there are people who make annoying jokes about trans people, comparing them to otherkin as if that invalidates their identities, or treating the concept of assuming one's identity as if it is a reasonable thing to do. Both of these ideas are rude and could hurt plenty of transgender folks, but that is a given. It could also hurt otherkin that genuinely identify with many vast and numerous kinds of identities outside the range of simple binary or dimensional gender. A lot of otherkin identities feel more real to them than gender ever could due to their less psychological nature, such as when one doesn't identify with human bodies. Gender identities that don't match our bodies can lead to a desire for another body entirely but most transgender people seem to still identify as human. There are people who's gender is that of creatures other than humans, sometimes even that of inanimate objects such as robots and even vehicles in o...

My Journey in BDSM is Incomplete (and brainworms hurt) //cognito-hazard: channer culture

I wrote this little article about my life and then saved it to a hard drive and never posted it anywhere. I would occasionally add to it from time to time but never felt like it was finished. Please forgive the formatting it's from a time when I used a website that really liked this kind of formatting with the short snippets of text instead of sentences. This kind of formatting is called "greentext" by some because the websites where this formatting is common would render the text green when the line is started with a "greater-than" (>) sign. "Leftypol" was a board on the website which is a place where posts are grouped under a particular topic, this one being for left-wing politics. You'll notice that I used the lowercase "i" when referring to myself and I still do in casual conversation and that's because of how I see myself as not worthy of having the word referring to myself capitalized. Now obviously there are some very bad id...

Happy Children's Day!

It's children's day today, be sure to show the children in your life some respect and treat them well. Children deserve to vote and be a part of society. They are very strongly oppressed by society, even to the point that they don't have the right to live on their own, and yet child labour is becoming more prevalent these days. It's very scary for anyone who might legally be considered a minor. Young people are regularly derided on the internet, their opinions are disregarded constantly. When a child has a valid argument against their parents, they are told that they are being disrespectful. Children are treated like slaves in our society. They deserve so much better. This is especially true for queer and otherwise nonconforming youths. I remember being a young futanari and it was very difficult for me to be myself and my parents were transphobic, homophobic, and more specifically futaphobic as well. Young nonconforming people tend to be bullied, ostracized, made to fee...

Pride Month 2023

It's the start of Pride Month and I want to wish everyone a happy month of gayness! Stay safe out there and be sure to use protection. I hope we can learn to accept one another and we can all keep an open mind to the possible ways that one can be a member of the community. Everyone belongs here and who you love or how you identify can never change that! We should not be trying to divide our community up because that will only serve to weaken us. The bad people will see us all as degenerates anyways so there's no use trying to cut someone out in order to better our position in society. Then again, even if it works, it's still morally bankrupt. Imagine a world where we all could just exist happily. I want a world like that and I hope you do too. Let's try to build that world ourselves! It will take work to learn how and even more work to do it but I think it's definitely possible if we all put in the effort. Whether you're a sexual or gender minority, or your iden...

Public Displays of Affection

Many people kiss and hold hands in public spaces. This is considered normal and accepted, but many people are disgusted by such displays of affection. The act of trying to prevent public displays of affection such as kissing and hand-holding is considered rude. The idea of preventing someone from holding hands with their partner or disallowing them from kissing in public on the basis that you don't want to see it is authoritarian garbage and should not be considered a valid stance for one to hold. It is ridiculous. Yet we use the same argument to prevent people from having sex in public. This is ridiculous for a few reasons. Not only is it horribly restrictive to the homeless, (resulting in many homeless people being prevented from ever  having sex,) but preventing sex in public is a form of controlling how people can express themselves with one another. As long as they aren't involving non-consenting parties in their actions, what they do should be allowed. Consent applies to ...

Exposure in Public Spaces

Many people consider the genitals to be inappropriate to reveal in public. In most locations on earth, exposing one's genitals is considered a crime. The social expectation is that someone who does expose their genitals is a "pervert" (another word for degenerate) and they are seen as a sex criminal similar to a rapist. This directly contradicts the true nature of the genitals and of the human experience itself. Genitals are not entirely sexual. Obviously they play an important part in sexuality but a foot fetishist involves feet in their sexuality and yet we don't consider feet to be sexual. The truth is that no body part is entirely sexual in nature or entirely innocent either. Any body part can be seen as sexually stimulating and any body part can also be seen as casual and normal by another person. The vagina and penis, are full of nerve endings, but hands and lips are also full of nerve endings. Penises contain the urethra which allows the evacuation of liquid wa...

Existential Denial

Futanari are rarely represented in media outside of pornography and reactions to said pornography. Futas are reacted to by the media and the general public as inherently sexual individuals, somewhat like how transgender people were treated in the 90s. The idea that we should be treated with respect rarely crosses the minds of anyone that hears of our existence. In fact, most people tend to believe we are entirely fictional and do not exist in reality, and therefore they tend to think that they can treat all futas however they want since we are simply what they believe to be a "persona" that people put on to act out fictions, (usually thought to be erotica). A lot of futas hide their true identity behind the facade of "trans girl" and while that may be somewhat accurate and possibly even entirely true for some futanari, it can be exhausting having to alter your identity to fit with what is expected of you in order to find community. Still other futanari might even de...

Sexualization of Futanari

The futanari identity is sexualized much more than most other trans feminine identities. Futanari are so sexualised that some transfems and even futas themselves are under the impression that the word can only be used in a sexual context, regarding it as a lewd word that is NSFW in nature. It is a prominent tag on pornographic websites and on social media in connection with pornography. Just because it is highly sexualiszed does not mean that the identity is invalid for use in public. One should not be made to feel ashamed for identifying as a futa in a public setting and doing so should not be looked down upon or seen as sexual because it is the genuine identity of many people. Considering futas to be inherently sexual is no different from considering women to be inherently sexual. Futanari are not inherently sexual people. We have the same sexualities as any other gender identity, including gay, lesbian, heterosexual, pansexual, bisexual, and even asexual. Futas should be allowed to ...

Futanari Gender Identity in English Speaking Communities

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"Futanari" when used in english language is a gender identity that fits under the umbrella of " altersex ". It can also be used by intersex people. It should not be used for anyone unless they have made clear that it's okay to use the term for them, either by saying so or by using the term for themselves. This is because it is considered a slur by some and although reclaimed by many, it is not entirely accepted by all in the lgbtq+ community. The implication of the term is that the one for which it is used would have sex characteristics or a mental body plan that involves sex characteristics that are opposed to one another, specifically an expectation of a penis and a vagina, alongside some form of feminine gender expression or identity. Some futanari people consider themselves girls, others consider themselves a mixture of genders, and yet still others might consider "futanari" their only gender. Although "futanari" is widely accepted as a s...