Explaining Yourself

Explaining to others what your identity is and why can be a very stressful experience, especially if you hold an identity that isn't typical. I am a futanari so I see discrimination for my identity almost daily, even from other trans people. When people ask me to explain what my identity means or why I identify the way I do, I tend to become very uncomfortable and I would assume most others with non-standard identities would too. It can be very difficult to live with yourself when everyone tells you that your identity is invalid or impossible.

I have recently found a very interesting albeit short video game about dating a girl while being a futanari lesbian. It was anxiety inducing to me and I want to warn any other futas that might want to play it that it can be somewhat frustrating and/or triggering but I also really wanted to share it with y'all because it is very accurate to real life. It's called Futanari Dating Simulator by pepperpandia on itch.io.

This game was very personal for me because I have had very similar experiences with people in my life not understanding my gender dysphoria and misinterpreting it. The truth is, we should not need to explain ourselves to others. Our identities should simply be accepted without question. The fact that people feel the need to make judgmental comments on our identities or question why we identify this way instead of some other option they think is a better fit is really hurtful in some cases and frustrating in others.

Other people have no right to choose your identity for you and neither do they have any authority over what words mean. Use whatever words you like the most to identify yourself, however that may be.