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Explaining Yourself

Explaining to others what your identity is and why can be a very stressful experience, especially if you hold an identity that isn't typical. I am a futanari so I see discrimination for my identity almost daily, even from other trans people. When people ask me to explain what my identity means or why I identify the way I do, I tend to become very uncomfortable and I would assume most others with non-standard identities would too. It can be very difficult to live with yourself when everyone tells you that your identity is invalid or impossible. I have recently found a very interesting albeit short video game about dating a girl while being a futanari lesbian. It was anxiety inducing to me and I want to warn any other futas that might want to play it that it can be somewhat frustrating and/or triggering but I also really wanted to share it with y'all because it is very accurate to real life. It's called  Futanari Dating Simulator  by pepperpandia on itch.io. This game was ver...

Otherkin

A while ago and sometimes still to this day there are people who make annoying jokes about trans people, comparing them to otherkin as if that invalidates their identities, or treating the concept of assuming one's identity as if it is a reasonable thing to do. Both of these ideas are rude and could hurt plenty of transgender folks, but that is a given. It could also hurt otherkin that genuinely identify with many vast and numerous kinds of identities outside the range of simple binary or dimensional gender. A lot of otherkin identities feel more real to them than gender ever could due to their less psychological nature, such as when one doesn't identify with human bodies. Gender identities that don't match our bodies can lead to a desire for another body entirely but most transgender people seem to still identify as human. There are people who's gender is that of creatures other than humans, sometimes even that of inanimate objects such as robots and even vehicles in o...

My Journey in BDSM is Incomplete (and brainworms hurt) //cognito-hazard: channer culture

I wrote this little article about my life and then saved it to a hard drive and never posted it anywhere. I would occasionally add to it from time to time but never felt like it was finished. Please forgive the formatting it's from a time when I used a website that really liked this kind of formatting with the short snippets of text instead of sentences. This kind of formatting is called "greentext" by some because the websites where this formatting is common would render the text green when the line is started with a "greater-than" (>) sign. "Leftypol" was a board on the website which is a place where posts are grouped under a particular topic, this one being for left-wing politics. You'll notice that I used the lowercase "i" when referring to myself and I still do in casual conversation and that's because of how I see myself as not worthy of having the word referring to myself capitalized. Now obviously there are some very bad id...

Happy Children's Day!

It's children's day today, be sure to show the children in your life some respect and treat them well. Children deserve to vote and be a part of society. They are very strongly oppressed by society, even to the point that they don't have the right to live on their own, and yet child labour is becoming more prevalent these days. It's very scary for anyone who might legally be considered a minor. Young people are regularly derided on the internet, their opinions are disregarded constantly. When a child has a valid argument against their parents, they are told that they are being disrespectful. Children are treated like slaves in our society. They deserve so much better. This is especially true for queer and otherwise nonconforming youths. I remember being a young futanari and it was very difficult for me to be myself and my parents were transphobic, homophobic, and more specifically futaphobic as well. Young nonconforming people tend to be bullied, ostracized, made to fee...

Pride Month 2023

It's the start of Pride Month and I want to wish everyone a happy month of gayness! Stay safe out there and be sure to use protection. I hope we can learn to accept one another and we can all keep an open mind to the possible ways that one can be a member of the community. Everyone belongs here and who you love or how you identify can never change that! We should not be trying to divide our community up because that will only serve to weaken us. The bad people will see us all as degenerates anyways so there's no use trying to cut someone out in order to better our position in society. Then again, even if it works, it's still morally bankrupt. Imagine a world where we all could just exist happily. I want a world like that and I hope you do too. Let's try to build that world ourselves! It will take work to learn how and even more work to do it but I think it's definitely possible if we all put in the effort. Whether you're a sexual or gender minority, or your iden...