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Public Displays of Affection

Many people kiss and hold hands in public spaces. This is considered normal and accepted, but many people are disgusted by such displays of affection. The act of trying to prevent public displays of affection such as kissing and hand-holding is considered rude. The idea of preventing someone from holding hands with their partner or disallowing them from kissing in public on the basis that you don't want to see it is authoritarian garbage and should not be considered a valid stance for one to hold. It is ridiculous. Yet we use the same argument to prevent people from having sex in public. This is ridiculous for a few reasons. Not only is it horribly restrictive to the homeless, (resulting in many homeless people being prevented from ever  having sex,) but preventing sex in public is a form of controlling how people can express themselves with one another. As long as they aren't involving non-consenting parties in their actions, what they do should be allowed. Consent applies to ...

Exposure in Public Spaces

Many people consider the genitals to be inappropriate to reveal in public. In most locations on earth, exposing one's genitals is considered a crime. The social expectation is that someone who does expose their genitals is a "pervert" (another word for degenerate) and they are seen as a sex criminal similar to a rapist. This directly contradicts the true nature of the genitals and of the human experience itself. Genitals are not entirely sexual. Obviously they play an important part in sexuality but a foot fetishist involves feet in their sexuality and yet we don't consider feet to be sexual. The truth is that no body part is entirely sexual in nature or entirely innocent either. Any body part can be seen as sexually stimulating and any body part can also be seen as casual and normal by another person. The vagina and penis, are full of nerve endings, but hands and lips are also full of nerve endings. Penises contain the urethra which allows the evacuation of liquid wa...

Existential Denial

Futanari are rarely represented in media outside of pornography and reactions to said pornography. Futas are reacted to by the media and the general public as inherently sexual individuals, somewhat like how transgender people were treated in the 90s. The idea that we should be treated with respect rarely crosses the minds of anyone that hears of our existence. In fact, most people tend to believe we are entirely fictional and do not exist in reality, and therefore they tend to think that they can treat all futas however they want since we are simply what they believe to be a "persona" that people put on to act out fictions, (usually thought to be erotica). A lot of futas hide their true identity behind the facade of "trans girl" and while that may be somewhat accurate and possibly even entirely true for some futanari, it can be exhausting having to alter your identity to fit with what is expected of you in order to find community. Still other futanari might even de...

Sexualization of Futanari

The futanari identity is sexualized much more than most other trans feminine identities. Futanari are so sexualised that some transfems and even futas themselves are under the impression that the word can only be used in a sexual context, regarding it as a lewd word that is NSFW in nature. It is a prominent tag on pornographic websites and on social media in connection with pornography. Just because it is highly sexualiszed does not mean that the identity is invalid for use in public. One should not be made to feel ashamed for identifying as a futa in a public setting and doing so should not be looked down upon or seen as sexual because it is the genuine identity of many people. Considering futas to be inherently sexual is no different from considering women to be inherently sexual. Futanari are not inherently sexual people. We have the same sexualities as any other gender identity, including gay, lesbian, heterosexual, pansexual, bisexual, and even asexual. Futas should be allowed to ...

Futanari Gender Identity in English Speaking Communities

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"Futanari" when used in english language is a gender identity that fits under the umbrella of " altersex ". It can also be used by intersex people. It should not be used for anyone unless they have made clear that it's okay to use the term for them, either by saying so or by using the term for themselves. This is because it is considered a slur by some and although reclaimed by many, it is not entirely accepted by all in the lgbtq+ community. The implication of the term is that the one for which it is used would have sex characteristics or a mental body plan that involves sex characteristics that are opposed to one another, specifically an expectation of a penis and a vagina, alongside some form of feminine gender expression or identity. Some futanari people consider themselves girls, others consider themselves a mixture of genders, and yet still others might consider "futanari" their only gender. Although "futanari" is widely accepted as a s...